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Jill's' semi-conscious conflicting primary needs For example: That would take spontaneous vs. It also might take Jack reducing his old shame wound "insecurity"which has nothing to do with Jill. Recall - these premises form a foundation for solving relationship problems effectively.
How do they compare to your beliefs so far? If you agree, is that what you usually do? Problems between two people or subselves often involve a third person in a way that keeps the problem going.
They're specially common in low-nurturance dysfunctionaldivorcing, and step families. Few adults are aware of these three stressors or what to do about them.
Interpersonal relationships can be None of these strategies fill adults' and kids' primary needs well enough. People who use them are unaware and often wounded, not bad, childish, selfish, arrogant, or stupid!
This is why Lesson 1 identify and reduce psychological wounds is essential for effective relationship problem-solving.
When based on genuine mutual respect, seven communication skills can empower any adult or child led by their true Self to analyze and resolve their innerpersonal and interpersonal problems need conflicts well enough.
How aware were you of your premises about relationship problems? Who's responsible in your family for learning, modeling, and teaching such premises and effective-communication skills? Learn something about yourself from this anonymous 1-question poll. Before reading further, pause and identify several "relationship problems" you have at home, work, school, or socially.
Keep them in mind as you read these Problem-solving Guidelines Let's put these premises to work. Hilite or asterisk any that seem specially important. Option - checkmark any guideline you're using already: Test your knowledge with these quizzes.
If you can't accept that, suspect that a well-meaning false self controls you. Shame-based wounded people have major trouble with this until they commit to true vs. That includes needing and accepting help. Emotions are natural and neutral, not "negative" or "positive". How our subselves express or act on emotions can be productive or harmful.
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